An intentional and
considered way to meet.

You receive your top 10 most compatible people — toggle between your city, country, or worldwide. Your list is shaped by your compatibility answers and the basics you share about yourself.

Tap any match to view their profile and your compatibility score. From here, you can invite them to a first date (a coffee or a phone call), or remove them from your list. You can remove up to two people per week, and anyone removed is replaced with someone new on Sunday.

All your invites — sent and received — live here. Accept or decline at any time.

Accepted invites become plans. You can have up to three first dates active at a time. From the second date onwards, Ethos focuses you on one person — because intentional dating takes presence. You can end any connection at any time and return to your matches.

Manage your basics, filters, compatibility answers, availability, and account settings — all in one place.