Your Safety
Safety
Ethos is built for people who are intentional about finding their person. Your safety is important to us — here are some practical steps to help you stay safe while getting to know someone new.
Meeting in Person
Meet in a public place
For your first few dates, always choose a public venue — a café, restaurant, or bar where other people are around. Avoid meeting at someone's home, in a secluded area, or anywhere you'd feel uncomfortable leaving quickly.
Tell someone your plans
Let a friend or family member know where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back. Share your live location with a trusted contact if you can. Having someone who knows your plans is one of the simplest and most effective safety measures.
Arrange your own transport
Drive yourself, take public transport, or use a rideshare. Don't rely on your date for a lift, especially on the first meeting. Having your own way home means you can leave whenever you choose.
Stay sober and alert
Keep a clear head, especially on early dates. If you choose to drink, keep it moderate and always watch your drink. Never leave your drink unattended or accept a drink from someone you don't know well.
Trust your instincts
If something feels off — during messaging or in person — trust that feeling. You are never obligated to stay, to be polite at the expense of your comfort, or to give someone a second chance. Your safety and wellbeing always come first.
Online Safety
Protect your personal information
Don't share your home address, workplace address, financial details, or other sensitive information with someone you haven't met in person. Be cautious about sharing your social media handles or phone number before you've built some trust.
Never send money
Do not send money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or financial information to anyone you've met on the Platform, regardless of the reason they give. Requests for money are one of the most common signs of a scam. If someone asks you for money, report them immediately.
Watch for red flags
Be alert to warning signs: someone who avoids answering questions about themselves, pushes to move off the Platform very quickly, sends inconsistent or copied-sounding messages, makes you feel guilty for setting boundaries, or whose profile seems too good to be true. Trust your judgement.
Using Ethos Safely
Report and block
If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, harasses you, or behaves inappropriately, use the report feature in the app. You can also block users — blocking is mutual and permanent, and the other person will not be notified. We review all reports and take action to keep the community safe.
Keep conversations on the Platform
Ethos is designed to help you get to know someone before you meet. Use the in-app messaging until you feel comfortable sharing other contact details. Conversations on the Platform give you the ability to report and block if needed — once you move to another channel, we can't help as easily.
Legal
Ethos Child Safety Standards
Ethos is a relationship-focused matchmaking app operated by Ethos Labs Pty Ltd. We take child safety extremely seriously. This page sets out our published standards for preventing child sexual abuse and exploitation (CSAE) on Ethos, in line with Google Play’s Child Safety Standards policy and applicable child-safety laws.
In these standards we use the following definitions, consistent with the Google Play Child Safety Standards policy:
- Child sexual abuse and exploitation (CSAE) means content or behaviour that sexually exploits, abuses, or endangers children — including, for example, grooming a child for sexual exploitation, sextorting a child, trafficking a child for sex, or otherwise sexually exploiting a child.
- Child sexual abuse material (CSAM) means any visual depiction — including photos, videos, and computer-generated imagery — involving the use of a minor engaging in sexually explicit conduct.
1. Zero-tolerance policy
Ethos has a zero-tolerance policy toward child sexual abuse and exploitation (CSAE) and child sexual abuse material (CSAM). The following are strictly prohibited on Ethos:
- Any content that sexualises, exploits, or endangers a minor (any person under the age of 18).
- The creation, sharing, solicitation, possession, or transmission of CSAM in any form, including AI-generated, computer-generated, animated, or drawn depictions of minors.
- Grooming, sextortion, or any attempt to engage a minor in sexual conversation, contact, or activity.
- Use of Ethos by anyone under the age of 18. Ethos is an 18+ app and we enforce this through a self-declared date of birth at sign-up, with hard rejection for any user under 18, and ongoing review of user-reported accounts.
Any account engaged in any of the above will be permanently banned, and reports involving CSAM will be escalated to law enforcement and the appropriate national reporting body without delay.
2. Child safety point of contact
For child-safety reports, regulator enquiries, or law-enforcement requests relating to CSAE on Ethos, contact James Fox, our Child Safety Officer at Ethos Labs Pty Ltd. James Fox is responsible for Ethos’s CSAM prevention practices and compliance with the Google Play Child Safety Standards policy:
Name: James Fox (Child Safety Officer, Ethos Labs Pty Ltd)
Email: childsafety@ethosapp.co
3. In-app reporting mechanism
Every Ethos user profile, message thread, and connection includes a Block & Report action that is available within the app, so users can flag concerns without leaving Ethos. The report form includes a dedicated Child safety concern category covering all child-safety issues. Users can also email child-safety reports directly to childsafety@ethosapp.co. Examples of child-safety concerns that should be reported under this category include:
- Suspected minor account
- Sexual content involving a minor
- Grooming or sexually inappropriate behaviour
- Solicitation of CSAM
All reports are received in our admin moderation queue and reviewed by Ethos Labs Pty Ltd within 24 hours. Reports flagged as involving a minor are prioritised for immediate review.
4. CSAM handling and law-enforcement reporting
When Ethos Labs Pty Ltd obtains actual knowledge of CSAM or suspected CSAE on Ethos — whether through a user report or moderator review — we take appropriate action in accordance with these standards and applicable laws. Specifically, we will:
- Remove the content from the platform immediately.
- Disable the offending account.
- Preserve the relevant records (user identifiers, content, and timestamps) in line with applicable evidence-preservation obligations.
- Report the incident to the appropriate national authority — including the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) CyberTipline in the United States, the Internet Watch Foundation (IWF) in the United Kingdom, the eSafety Commissioner in Australia, and any other competent authority for the jurisdictions involved.
- Cooperate fully with any subsequent law-enforcement investigation, including production of preserved records under valid legal process.
5. Age assurance
Ethos is an 18+ service. To enforce this we require:
- A self-declared date of birth at sign-up, with hard rejection for any user under 18.
- Ongoing manual review of any account reported as a suspected minor.
Accounts where the user is found to be under 18 are deleted.
6. Compliance with applicable child-safety laws and regulations
These standards are aligned with the Google Play Child Safety Standards policy and informed by the Tech Coalition’s Child Safety Standards. Ethos Labs Pty Ltd complies with all applicable child-safety laws and regulations in the jurisdictions in which Ethos is offered, including but not limited to:
- United States — 18 U.S.C. § 2258A (mandatory CyberTipline reporting), the PROTECT Act, COPPA.
- United Kingdom — the Online Safety Act 2023, IWF protocols.
- Australia — the Online Safety Act 2021 and the Basic Online Safety Expectations.
- European Union — the Digital Services Act and applicable national equivalents.
- India — the Protection of Children from Sexual Offences (POCSO) Act 2012, the Information Technology Act 2000 (including Section 67B), and the Information Technology (Intermediary Guidelines and Digital Media Ethics Code) Rules 2021.
We review these standards at least annually and update them as regulations evolve.
If you believe a child is in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first, then report to Ethos via childsafety@ethosapp.co.
Need to report something?
If you've experienced something concerning on or off the Platform, or if you're worried about another user's safety, please reach out. We take every report seriously.